Mama, You Got This

As a mom, I often find myself caught in the whirlwind of caring for others, frequently putting my own needs on the back burner. There’s a unique joy that comes from serving my children and my husband; nothing warms my heart more than seeing their faces light up from the little things I do. Whether it’s whipping up a special treat, styling LALA’s hair, or preparing a dinner that brings us all together, these moments fuel the rhythm of our household and make every effort feel worthwhile.

However, the reality of motherhood can be demanding, and there are days when the weight of exhaustion becomes overwhelming. The tiredness seeps in, leaving me with little energy or desire to do anything but collapse on the couch and zone out. On those days, I often find myself grappling with guilt for not being able to give my all. Yet, I’ve come to realize that taking care of myself isn’t just a luxury; it’s a necessity.

I don’t need to engage in self-care every single day, nor do I try to squeeze it in when the babies are in need of my attention. Instead, I carve out special moments for myself at night, after LALA has gone to sleep, when I can enjoy some peaceful time to recharge. During this time, Isaac takes the opportunity to spend some one-on-one moments with MJ, allowing me to focus on my own well-being.

Whether it’s indulging in a treat just for myself, enjoying a TV show, or taking a nice bubble bath, these nighttime activities allow me to replenish my cup. By prioritizing self-care, I not only nurture myself but also create a more positive atmosphere for my family. When I take care of myself, I’m better equipped to pour love, energy, and patience into our home, fostering a happier and healthier environment for us all.

So while I cherish every opportunity to serve my family, I’m learning to embrace self-care as an essential part of my journey—one that enables me to be the best version of myself for them.